Do you find yourself in a state of constant lamentation at the state
of your life? Are you not happy with the way that your life is going?
Are you not satisfied with the wealth, opportunities, attention, and
other things that you are receiving in life?
1. Do you even ask? The first thing you need to ask yourself
is, do you ask for what you want? Most people keep on complaining that
they don’t get what they want in life without realizing that the root of
the problem is that they don’t ask at all.
Have you heard of the story about the old man who keeps on praying to
win the lottery, but he doesn’t even buy a ticket? Most of us are like
that most times.
So what you need to do is specify what you really want. Think about
your desires, and try to formulate and visualize them in your mind. Make
sure that you can answer specifically and directly if someone asks you
what you want in life. This way, both your subconscious mind and the
universe will know what you want.
2. Why your subconscious? You need to know what you want so
you will know which direction you’re headed for. You need to communicate
it in certain and specific terms to the controlling body in your life.
This controlling power is your subliminal mind. If you program what you
want in your subliminal mind, your mind will control your thoughts,
actions, behaviors, habits, impulses, and so on to help you get what you want.
So just keep on telling yourself what you want, both consciously (for
added motivation) and subconsciously, so you won’t jeopardize your own
chances of getting them and all your habits
and beliefs will work together. Once your subconscious recognizes what
you want, it will start formulating its own plan and solution on how to
get you what you ask for. It will come up with the empowering thoughts,
useful ideas, and healthy habits that will all contribute to your desire.
3. Why the universe? The universe has to know what you want too. Have you heard of the law of attraction?
According to this law, the universe will actually conspire to give you
what you want if you powerfully attract your desires into your life
using the power of positive thought. What does it mean for the universe
to conspire to bring you what you desire? This just means that all
things, people, and circumstances will miraculous go the way you want,
smoothly, to pave the way for you getting what you desire.
To make the law of attraction
work for you, you need to fill your head with the full belief that you
will get what you ask for. You need to believe 100% in the actuality of
your desires actually coming to life. Your positive thoughts will
radiate such power and attract your goals straight to you.
So there you have it. In order to get what you want, you just have to do three things:
1. Ask
2. Let your subconscious know what you want.
3. Let the universe know what you want.
article source :
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/the-power-of-the-subliminal-mind-and-the-law-of-attraction-three-steps-to-get-what-you-ask-
“Believe you can and you're halfway there.”
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2012/12/04
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Beliefs that Make You Poor and How to Change Them
Who doesn’t want to get rich? It’s practically everyone’s ultimate
goal in life. The truth is, getting rich isn’t difficult. The only
reason why so many people are suffering from the lack of it is that they
hold on to thoughts, ideas, and beliefs that hinder them from becoming
rich.
So if you want to get rich, here are some beliefs to stay away from:
1. You have to work really, really hard to earn money. It is true that you have to work to earn money, but you don’t have to break your back doing so. You don’t have to drive yourself to exhaustion chasing one opportunity after another.
You can, instead, attract opportunities into your life, and work just hard enough to maximize all of them.
The idea that only those who work really hard can get rich is not all that true. There is an easy way to make your efforts yield greater results, so you don’t have to increase your effort in order to increase your income. All it takes is the right mindset that will magnet opportunities followed by the right response or attitude to any opportunities that come knocking.
2. The rich are haughty, selfish people. A lot of people tend to think that those who are rich all have negative attitudes. You may consider all rich people selfish, haughty, unwilling to help, conceited, and so on, regardless of whether it is true or not. These beliefs make your mind think that being rich isn’t a positive thing, so your mind will not work towards that goal. Your mind will think that you don’t really want to be rich because of these negative beliefs.
So try to break any negative thought patterns regarding wealth and wealthy people. They could be the culprits hindering you from becoming rich yourself.
3. Wealth is a burden. Some people console themselves with the idea that being rich is a burden. They start imagining all the problems and issues they have to face in case they get rich. Here are some examples: they have to pay more taxes, they will feel obliged to donate to charity, they have to support or help more relatives or friends in need, and so on. This belief can actually make your subconscious mind fearful of getting rich.
How to Change Them
If you have any of these beliefs, then it’s about time to change them. That is, if you want to get rich. But you may ask, “how exactly can you change beliefs?”
The key is subliminal programming or the process of reconstructuring the way the mind works. This involves the use of subliminal messages, which have proven effective in changing beliefs, thought patterns, ideas, habits, and so on. All you have to do is come up with positive messages that contradict the negative beliefs about the rich and keep on repeating them to yourself. You can also use especially designed products that are used to send these messages to the subconscious. These are called subliminal products, which include subliminal videos, audio tapes, and so on. There are a lot of these online, so make sure you start the first step into getting rich as soon as you can find some of these products.
article source : http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/beliefs-that-make-you-poor-and-how-to-change-them
So if you want to get rich, here are some beliefs to stay away from:
1. You have to work really, really hard to earn money. It is true that you have to work to earn money, but you don’t have to break your back doing so. You don’t have to drive yourself to exhaustion chasing one opportunity after another.
You can, instead, attract opportunities into your life, and work just hard enough to maximize all of them.
The idea that only those who work really hard can get rich is not all that true. There is an easy way to make your efforts yield greater results, so you don’t have to increase your effort in order to increase your income. All it takes is the right mindset that will magnet opportunities followed by the right response or attitude to any opportunities that come knocking.
2. The rich are haughty, selfish people. A lot of people tend to think that those who are rich all have negative attitudes. You may consider all rich people selfish, haughty, unwilling to help, conceited, and so on, regardless of whether it is true or not. These beliefs make your mind think that being rich isn’t a positive thing, so your mind will not work towards that goal. Your mind will think that you don’t really want to be rich because of these negative beliefs.
So try to break any negative thought patterns regarding wealth and wealthy people. They could be the culprits hindering you from becoming rich yourself.
3. Wealth is a burden. Some people console themselves with the idea that being rich is a burden. They start imagining all the problems and issues they have to face in case they get rich. Here are some examples: they have to pay more taxes, they will feel obliged to donate to charity, they have to support or help more relatives or friends in need, and so on. This belief can actually make your subconscious mind fearful of getting rich.
How to Change Them
If you have any of these beliefs, then it’s about time to change them. That is, if you want to get rich. But you may ask, “how exactly can you change beliefs?”
The key is subliminal programming or the process of reconstructuring the way the mind works. This involves the use of subliminal messages, which have proven effective in changing beliefs, thought patterns, ideas, habits, and so on. All you have to do is come up with positive messages that contradict the negative beliefs about the rich and keep on repeating them to yourself. You can also use especially designed products that are used to send these messages to the subconscious. These are called subliminal products, which include subliminal videos, audio tapes, and so on. There are a lot of these online, so make sure you start the first step into getting rich as soon as you can find some of these products.
article source : http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/beliefs-that-make-you-poor-and-how-to-change-them
2012/11/14
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Happiness: A Step Away
Happiness stems from the inner feeling of peace and the calmness
surrounding it. While many believe that happiness would come to them
from the things that they do or the needs they fulfill, it does not
truly work that way.
While little things could change your mood and make you happy, happiness comes from inside. Of course, there might be factors that activate your happiness, but some people, at the worst times, remain happy.
In the saddest moment, there is always something that can change your mood. It's not something that you can see, and only few people can feel it. It requires a lot of work in order to obtain and once obtained, you can never let it go. Just like you, everyone has trouble of his own and everybody goes through hard times.
If you identify and find the happiest man in the world and ask him the reason for his happiness, he will say that there is no reason he can name, he is just happy that way. Don't -you- mistake happiness with lack of worrisome or for the company of a nice lady or for the wealth, but all of that perishes.
Nothing truly lasts forever, because eternity is a long time. If you want to achieve happiness, then you are up for a long list of tasks that you need to do. You need to get rid of all the straight negative feelings that you encounter because of things you have done or things that were done to you and instead embrace happiness as a friend rather than a feeling; a friend whom you can count on when everything seems to go against you.
Anger will not allow you to reach for happiness. What anger does is, eventually, destructive to both your serenity and the peace surrounding you. While you are in an angry state, go back into your memories and find something that will soothe you. While your memories might all seem dark, there's that one thing that will make you feel good.
When you do well, do not expect or wait for anything in return. If there is a reason for the good feelings, then keep in mind that the reason will fade some day and you will not be able to do good again because your motivation is gone.
And remember that because you do not receive positive effects in return, you will give yourself a reason to be happy when the world frowns at you. You are the master of yourself and only you can give yourself the happiness you need to go on and smile when everything seems dim.
Your smile will turn everything around because you attract this positive energy that will bring you good things in return.
If you ever feel that you are lonely, bring your happiness out through memories and if you have no memories, imagine things that will make you happy. While imagination seems to be an anti-realistic topic, it is the reason for most inventions and the greatest invention that man has ever made is happiness.
Happiness is all around you, if you take a closer look at the world all around you.
But the negative feelings that might encounter you do not only come from you, sometimes they come from things or people around you. If you fail to do something, will you throw yourself into depression or just get back up and hope -even when all hope is lost- so you would be able to keep on going?
If you surrender to the negative feelings then you lose your ownership over your own self and in return, you might seek alternatives that will make you feel in control. But that is never the way to go.
A bit of forgiveness and humble apologetic behavior will turn the tides around. When you are rightfully do something and someone else takes the credit for it, smile and they will lose everything that they have done to steal your accomplishment.
Vengeful behavior will get you nowhere, but acceptance will bring you strength and forgiveness will make you win.
While little things could change your mood and make you happy, happiness comes from inside. Of course, there might be factors that activate your happiness, but some people, at the worst times, remain happy.
In the saddest moment, there is always something that can change your mood. It's not something that you can see, and only few people can feel it. It requires a lot of work in order to obtain and once obtained, you can never let it go. Just like you, everyone has trouble of his own and everybody goes through hard times.
If you identify and find the happiest man in the world and ask him the reason for his happiness, he will say that there is no reason he can name, he is just happy that way. Don't -you- mistake happiness with lack of worrisome or for the company of a nice lady or for the wealth, but all of that perishes.
Nothing truly lasts forever, because eternity is a long time. If you want to achieve happiness, then you are up for a long list of tasks that you need to do. You need to get rid of all the straight negative feelings that you encounter because of things you have done or things that were done to you and instead embrace happiness as a friend rather than a feeling; a friend whom you can count on when everything seems to go against you.
Anger will not allow you to reach for happiness. What anger does is, eventually, destructive to both your serenity and the peace surrounding you. While you are in an angry state, go back into your memories and find something that will soothe you. While your memories might all seem dark, there's that one thing that will make you feel good.
When you do well, do not expect or wait for anything in return. If there is a reason for the good feelings, then keep in mind that the reason will fade some day and you will not be able to do good again because your motivation is gone.
And remember that because you do not receive positive effects in return, you will give yourself a reason to be happy when the world frowns at you. You are the master of yourself and only you can give yourself the happiness you need to go on and smile when everything seems dim.
Your smile will turn everything around because you attract this positive energy that will bring you good things in return.
If you ever feel that you are lonely, bring your happiness out through memories and if you have no memories, imagine things that will make you happy. While imagination seems to be an anti-realistic topic, it is the reason for most inventions and the greatest invention that man has ever made is happiness.
Happiness is all around you, if you take a closer look at the world all around you.
But the negative feelings that might encounter you do not only come from you, sometimes they come from things or people around you. If you fail to do something, will you throw yourself into depression or just get back up and hope -even when all hope is lost- so you would be able to keep on going?
If you surrender to the negative feelings then you lose your ownership over your own self and in return, you might seek alternatives that will make you feel in control. But that is never the way to go.
A bit of forgiveness and humble apologetic behavior will turn the tides around. When you are rightfully do something and someone else takes the credit for it, smile and they will lose everything that they have done to steal your accomplishment.
Vengeful behavior will get you nowhere, but acceptance will bring you strength and forgiveness will make you win.
2012/10/31
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Are You Good Enough?
Many people have some form of the belief that they are not good
enough. It is a core belief that also manifests as feeling unworthy and
undeserving - such as not deserving love, happiness or abundance. It is
at the root of most other unhealthy beliefs and leads to many related
fears, such as the fear of people discovering that you're not good
enough and that they won't love you because of it.
There are many ways that this belief shows up in your life, here are just a few:
Giving your power away - such as when you constantly look outside yourself for answers and solutions, trying to find the one thing that will 'fix' everything. You don't trust yourself and so you think that others have the answers for you.
Feeling guilty - when something goes wrong, no matter what it is, you assume it's your fault. You must have done something wrong.
Perfectionism - when you are scared of getting something wrong, of making a mistake, of saying or doing the wrong thing and being found out, you may think that you just have high standards. Really this is rooted in the belief that you're not good enough and so you strive to be perfect in order to prove that you are.
Insecurity - if you have many fears, such as the fear of public speaking, of looking foolish in front of others, and the fear of failure it's because you feel you're not good enough. You lack confidence and feel you cannot do new things.
Overly confident - those who seem to be very confident and who are often the life and soul of the party may fool people into believing that they do feel good enough and that they've got it all together. Often the opposite is true and their behavior is simply a front designed to cover up the pain of the belief that underneath it all they really don't believe they're good enough.
People with this belief are often very good at deflecting - putting the focus and attention on someone else, not on themselves. If you put the focus on someone else then you feel you can cover up your own deficiencies.
The people who have this belief are not only those who had unsupportive and unloving childhoods. The belief may have been instilled in you by your parents who told you or demonstrated that you weren't good enough or that nothing you ever did was good enough. Or it could come from your parents being overly supportive, telling you that everything you did was perfect. Or it could have come from a sibling being jealous of you or being praised more than you. It could have come from school or from your peers.
Perhaps as a child you were pushed too hard or forced to do things you really didn't want to do. Perhaps your parents wanted so much for you to achieve the things in life that they weren't able to that you felt too much pressure to perform. There can be many reasons why this belief was formed.
The most important thing to know about the belief of 'I'm not good enough' is that you will have to deal with it at some point in your life. You may have been successful at covering it up and you may even have accomplished a great deal in your life despite having this belief. However, there always comes a point where you can no longer live the lie. The lie is that you're not good enough, because you are good enough. You deserve to be here, you deserve unlimited love, happiness and abundance.
The only way to release the belief is to be aware of when and how it shows up in your life. To recognize that this is not who you are and to allow yourself to release the pain that comes up as a result of it.
When you transform this belief you can finally be at peace and achieve the freedom you desire. You can be content and at peace with yourself and your life. Isn't that a great reason to commit to transforming this belief today?
There are many ways that this belief shows up in your life, here are just a few:
Giving your power away - such as when you constantly look outside yourself for answers and solutions, trying to find the one thing that will 'fix' everything. You don't trust yourself and so you think that others have the answers for you.
Feeling guilty - when something goes wrong, no matter what it is, you assume it's your fault. You must have done something wrong.
Perfectionism - when you are scared of getting something wrong, of making a mistake, of saying or doing the wrong thing and being found out, you may think that you just have high standards. Really this is rooted in the belief that you're not good enough and so you strive to be perfect in order to prove that you are.
Insecurity - if you have many fears, such as the fear of public speaking, of looking foolish in front of others, and the fear of failure it's because you feel you're not good enough. You lack confidence and feel you cannot do new things.
Overly confident - those who seem to be very confident and who are often the life and soul of the party may fool people into believing that they do feel good enough and that they've got it all together. Often the opposite is true and their behavior is simply a front designed to cover up the pain of the belief that underneath it all they really don't believe they're good enough.
People with this belief are often very good at deflecting - putting the focus and attention on someone else, not on themselves. If you put the focus on someone else then you feel you can cover up your own deficiencies.
The people who have this belief are not only those who had unsupportive and unloving childhoods. The belief may have been instilled in you by your parents who told you or demonstrated that you weren't good enough or that nothing you ever did was good enough. Or it could come from your parents being overly supportive, telling you that everything you did was perfect. Or it could have come from a sibling being jealous of you or being praised more than you. It could have come from school or from your peers.
Perhaps as a child you were pushed too hard or forced to do things you really didn't want to do. Perhaps your parents wanted so much for you to achieve the things in life that they weren't able to that you felt too much pressure to perform. There can be many reasons why this belief was formed.
The most important thing to know about the belief of 'I'm not good enough' is that you will have to deal with it at some point in your life. You may have been successful at covering it up and you may even have accomplished a great deal in your life despite having this belief. However, there always comes a point where you can no longer live the lie. The lie is that you're not good enough, because you are good enough. You deserve to be here, you deserve unlimited love, happiness and abundance.
The only way to release the belief is to be aware of when and how it shows up in your life. To recognize that this is not who you are and to allow yourself to release the pain that comes up as a result of it.
When you transform this belief you can finally be at peace and achieve the freedom you desire. You can be content and at peace with yourself and your life. Isn't that a great reason to commit to transforming this belief today?
Linda Binns is an Energy Coach and Mentor, helping professional
women and women business owners achieve work-life balance and freedom by
identifying and releasing whatever is holding them back.
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2012/10/29
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Important Habits of Mind For Achieving Success
Habits of mind are the patterns of an individual's disposition in
every aspect of life. It is the motivational force of that will direct
the achievement of success. They are strategies or tools that control
mental state of the human brain. This is a state of the mind which has
the inclination to act in specific ways. They provide elevation to
actions. They are not values, but they are absolutely valuable in
helping you to achieve your goals. Your values or attitude determines
the direction to where your life leads you.
If you have notice that life isn't getting you where you want to be, this is the time to make a reflection on the pattern of your thinking. If you want to excel, then you need to condition and motivate yourself that you will achieve it rather than settling with the old fashioned way of achieving success. You need to use your mind correctly to think properly on what you need to do to achieve your goal. You should be able to further your research or study to feed your mind with great information in the direction of success.
For those people who are very successful in their chosen fields, they have set their mind into a brighter aspect. These are the people who weren't scared to address their failures and modify them to become better in their next attempt. They set up their mind to be positive, so they will be able to get exactly what they want. Your actions should also work with your mind. When you employ actions to your motivational factor then success is reachable. Successful people are not afraid to challenge themselves. They try to make it better the next time around.
They influence their mind with great positivity and practicing further so it will function according to their desired outcome. They don't cease to discover new things. They just don't stop with what is conventional, but rather they search further. They try to control their mind to think of what needs to be thought about so they will be able to get where they want to be in. People who are successful don't refuse to learn more. They are very open to changes, and they can easily adapt to anything. They are able to try new things without the fear of being successful because they had already set up their mind that they will be successful.
Sometimes all we need is just to motivate our mind in order for us to achieve success. Whatever you chose to pattern your mind it will reflect on the result of your journey or endeavor. This is the reason why it is very important to impel your mind so it will change its pattern to go up with the flow. Habits of the mind are very important as it will foretell your way to success. It is what you are comfortable with doing. If you set it up in which your mind will expand, then surely success will not be hard to grasp.
If you have notice that life isn't getting you where you want to be, this is the time to make a reflection on the pattern of your thinking. If you want to excel, then you need to condition and motivate yourself that you will achieve it rather than settling with the old fashioned way of achieving success. You need to use your mind correctly to think properly on what you need to do to achieve your goal. You should be able to further your research or study to feed your mind with great information in the direction of success.
For those people who are very successful in their chosen fields, they have set their mind into a brighter aspect. These are the people who weren't scared to address their failures and modify them to become better in their next attempt. They set up their mind to be positive, so they will be able to get exactly what they want. Your actions should also work with your mind. When you employ actions to your motivational factor then success is reachable. Successful people are not afraid to challenge themselves. They try to make it better the next time around.
They influence their mind with great positivity and practicing further so it will function according to their desired outcome. They don't cease to discover new things. They just don't stop with what is conventional, but rather they search further. They try to control their mind to think of what needs to be thought about so they will be able to get where they want to be in. People who are successful don't refuse to learn more. They are very open to changes, and they can easily adapt to anything. They are able to try new things without the fear of being successful because they had already set up their mind that they will be successful.
Sometimes all we need is just to motivate our mind in order for us to achieve success. Whatever you chose to pattern your mind it will reflect on the result of your journey or endeavor. This is the reason why it is very important to impel your mind so it will change its pattern to go up with the flow. Habits of the mind are very important as it will foretell your way to success. It is what you are comfortable with doing. If you set it up in which your mind will expand, then surely success will not be hard to grasp.
2012/10/27
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The Ten Study Habits of Successful Students
Successful students have good study habits.
They apply these habits to all of their classes. Read about each study
habit. Work to develop any study habit you do not have.
Successful students:
- Try not to do too much studying at one time.
If you try to do too much studying at one time, you will tire and your studying will not be very effective. Space the work you have to do over shorter periods of time. Taking short breaks will restore your mental energy. - Plan specific times for studying.
Study time is any time you are doing something related to schoolwork. It can be completing assigned reading, working on a paper or project, or studying for a test. Schedule specific times throughout the week for your study time. - Try to study at the same times each day.
Studying at the same times each day establishes a routine that becomes a regular part of your life, just like sleeping and eating. When a scheduled study time comes up during the day, you will be mentally prepared to begin studying. - Set specific goals for their study times.
Goals will help you stay focused and monitor your progress. Simply sitting down to study has little value. You must be very clear about what you want to accomplish during your study times. - Start studying when planned.
You may delay starting your studying because you don't like an assignment or think it is too hard. A delay in studying is called "procrastination." If you procrastinate for any reason, you will find it difficult to get everything done when you need to. You may rush to make up the time you wasted getting started, resulting in careless work and errors. - Work on the assignment they find most difficult first.
Your most difficult assignment will require the most effort. Start with your most difficult assignment since this is when you have the most mental energy. - Review their notes before beginning an assignment.
Reviewing your notes can help you make sure you are doing an assignment correctly. Also, your notes may include information that will help you complete an assignment. - Tell their friends not to call them during their study times.
Two study problems can occur if your friends call you during your study times. First, your work is interrupted. It is not that easy to get back to what you were doing. Second, your friends may talk about things that will distract you from what you need to do. Here's a simple idea - turn off your cell phone during your study times. - Call another student when they have difficulty with an assignment.
This is a case where "two heads may be better than one." - Review their schoolwork over the weekend.
article source: http://www.how-to-study.com/study-skills/en/study-habits-of-successful-students.asp
2012/09/12
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Why Do the Majority of People Fail?
Less than 1% of us will ever succeed and live an enriched happy
life! Tragically enough the majority of the people who do not take
charge of their lives will end up wasting entire lifetimes in waiting
for divine intervention or complaining about how awful things are!
Men are not prisoners of Fate, but only prisoners of their own minds.
- Franklin Roosevelt
It isn't just the mentally depressed or penniless and miserable people that are unhappy and upset but also healthy and relatively successful people with jobs and wealth!
It is also true that more often than not the misery and sadness in people's lives is quite unnecessary and is finally dispelled, if dispelled at all, not due to any external happening but when they themselves take charge of their feelings and thinking and take decisive action to change for the better!
Statistically speaking less than 1% of us will ever succeed and live an enriched happy life! The real reason why the majority of us are not and won't ever be successful (until we change) is that we convince ourself that we know things that we actually do-not. This is our mind's most harmful and powerful trick which costs us dearly!
The key lies in empowering people to realize that they themselves determine the final outcome of their lives.
What you need to succeed is to utilise some very effective and powerful strategies and techniques to enable you to take immediate control of your life and shape your mental, physical, emotional and material destiny!
Equip yourself with every tool you need to achieve personal and professional excellence which will then pave the way for you to become the master of your life. This is a must for everyone who aspires to personal excellence and wants to think in new directions while adding brand new horizons to your thought.
The key is to use immediately applicable practical guidelines for paving the way towards concentration and focus of your emotions towards the attainment of your goals.
Make the choice to succeed Right here Right now. After all in the grand scheme of things we only get one shot in life which we need to make the most of! At the end one regrets the things that one did not do so do this for yourself and for your near and dear ones! Granted it is a rough ride which will entail long back breaking hours of pure labour but the end result will more than justify this input by you!
Men are not prisoners of Fate, but only prisoners of their own minds.
- Franklin Roosevelt
It isn't just the mentally depressed or penniless and miserable people that are unhappy and upset but also healthy and relatively successful people with jobs and wealth!
It is also true that more often than not the misery and sadness in people's lives is quite unnecessary and is finally dispelled, if dispelled at all, not due to any external happening but when they themselves take charge of their feelings and thinking and take decisive action to change for the better!
Statistically speaking less than 1% of us will ever succeed and live an enriched happy life! The real reason why the majority of us are not and won't ever be successful (until we change) is that we convince ourself that we know things that we actually do-not. This is our mind's most harmful and powerful trick which costs us dearly!
The key lies in empowering people to realize that they themselves determine the final outcome of their lives.
What you need to succeed is to utilise some very effective and powerful strategies and techniques to enable you to take immediate control of your life and shape your mental, physical, emotional and material destiny!
Equip yourself with every tool you need to achieve personal and professional excellence which will then pave the way for you to become the master of your life. This is a must for everyone who aspires to personal excellence and wants to think in new directions while adding brand new horizons to your thought.
The key is to use immediately applicable practical guidelines for paving the way towards concentration and focus of your emotions towards the attainment of your goals.
Make the choice to succeed Right here Right now. After all in the grand scheme of things we only get one shot in life which we need to make the most of! At the end one regrets the things that one did not do so do this for yourself and for your near and dear ones! Granted it is a rough ride which will entail long back breaking hours of pure labour but the end result will more than justify this input by you!
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Not only will this book provide to you every tool you need to achieve personal and professional excellence but also it will inspire you to become the master of your life. This is about personal achievement and creating true lasting success.
2012/07/02
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Finding Peace And Happiness
Life is a journey without a beginning and without an end. It is made
up of an immense number of experiences, each one shaping the next. And
these experiences are characterised by the emotions you feel whilst
you're going through that experience. If you feel negative feelings then
don't judge them as bad. Nothing is good or bad. It just is. You are
the one who assigns the labels. What some people might experience as
sheer bliss, for others it is just utter hell. If you love animals and
nature and your friend loves motor races, how would you feel if you were
attending a 2-day motor racing event with your friend? You would
probably not be very happy, whilst your friend would be having a ball.
That is how individual our experiences and their associated feelings
are.
We can choose what we want to experience and even more so, we can choose how we want to feel during that experience. Choosing your experience is the same as following your truth. Listen to what you prefer deep inside and follow this preference. And if you follow what you prefer, then you will feel inner peace because you have chosen your preference and therefore there is nothing to dislike, i.e. not that can cause you to feel negative. Whilst you're in an experience that you've chosen, you can still suddenly feel unhappy. Then again, listen to your inner voice and check what your preference is in that moment. When you then take the necessary steps to change your experience in accordance with your new preference and you change your feelings at the same time about your experience. There is no reason for you to feel unhappy ever. It is all in your power to change your experience in every moment and with that your feelings from negative to positive.
Your thoughts are very much part of you and who you are. Your thoughts guide you throughout your life and they are at the very beginning of what you create. Every step, every action, every creation, every experience starts with a thought. And that thought triggers another thought and so on. And when your thoughts - that are largely influenced by your experiences - are negative then it is very difficult to choose a positive experience to make the next thought a positive one.
Thoughts are immensely powerful but they are also hard to control one-by-one. Your emotions are therefore your best guidance system to follow because they always reflect the type of thoughts you have. If you tell yourself over and over again that your life is miserable and that you're unhappy (as an example of a negative thought), then your emotions will reflect these thoughts and you will feel miserable. When you choose to think happy thoughts instead, then you will feel happy and empowered and you will experience inner peace. Therefore inner peace is a reflection of the emotions you have and at the root of this, which thoughts you chose.
It is important to understand that you choose your thoughts and your emotions. They do not enter you through some mysterious process. No, you are responsible for your thoughts and emotions and not the outer circumstances in your life. You experience certain circumstances because of your emotions and thoughts, not the other way round. The Universe sends us whatever matches our thoughts and feelings. If we feel lack, we will experience more lack. If we feel happy, we will attract more happiness. Once you accept this responsibility and really fully understand all its implications, then you can start to choose the thoughts that are in alignment with who you want to be.
Imagine some of the world's top class athletes. They train to think success and winning. Part of their success is due to physical training, no doubt about that! But equally important is training the mind to see themselves winning. Do you think they never have moment of doubt? Of course they do but they have learned how to refocus their thoughts in a positive way. And just like athletes manage to break world records through physical and mental training, so can you refocus your thoughts and emotions on who you want to be in every moment of your life.
And the final step to be who you want to be is to follow through on your actions. Once you've ascertained what your truth is, you need to follow through with your actions. For example, if your preference is to go to the cinema, or start writing a book, or spend an evening with a dear friend, you need to take the appropriate action. Otherwise you're creating an image in your subconscious of not being true to yourself. It is similar to promising a friend to do them a favour, e.g. invite them for dinner, and never actually following through on that. After some time the friend won't believe in the invitation any longer. It's the same with your subconscious. If you only follow through on the surface by acknowledging your preference but never living it, never following through on it, then some part of you will feel cheated and you stop believing in yourself. And that is very damaging indeed to achieving the life you've dreamt of. You can't tap into the abundant potential of this Universe and at the same time send yourself the message that you don't believe in yourself. It's as if you're trying to drive a car with the handbrake on. It won't work!
We can choose what we want to experience and even more so, we can choose how we want to feel during that experience. Choosing your experience is the same as following your truth. Listen to what you prefer deep inside and follow this preference. And if you follow what you prefer, then you will feel inner peace because you have chosen your preference and therefore there is nothing to dislike, i.e. not that can cause you to feel negative. Whilst you're in an experience that you've chosen, you can still suddenly feel unhappy. Then again, listen to your inner voice and check what your preference is in that moment. When you then take the necessary steps to change your experience in accordance with your new preference and you change your feelings at the same time about your experience. There is no reason for you to feel unhappy ever. It is all in your power to change your experience in every moment and with that your feelings from negative to positive.
Your thoughts are very much part of you and who you are. Your thoughts guide you throughout your life and they are at the very beginning of what you create. Every step, every action, every creation, every experience starts with a thought. And that thought triggers another thought and so on. And when your thoughts - that are largely influenced by your experiences - are negative then it is very difficult to choose a positive experience to make the next thought a positive one.
Thoughts are immensely powerful but they are also hard to control one-by-one. Your emotions are therefore your best guidance system to follow because they always reflect the type of thoughts you have. If you tell yourself over and over again that your life is miserable and that you're unhappy (as an example of a negative thought), then your emotions will reflect these thoughts and you will feel miserable. When you choose to think happy thoughts instead, then you will feel happy and empowered and you will experience inner peace. Therefore inner peace is a reflection of the emotions you have and at the root of this, which thoughts you chose.
It is important to understand that you choose your thoughts and your emotions. They do not enter you through some mysterious process. No, you are responsible for your thoughts and emotions and not the outer circumstances in your life. You experience certain circumstances because of your emotions and thoughts, not the other way round. The Universe sends us whatever matches our thoughts and feelings. If we feel lack, we will experience more lack. If we feel happy, we will attract more happiness. Once you accept this responsibility and really fully understand all its implications, then you can start to choose the thoughts that are in alignment with who you want to be.
Imagine some of the world's top class athletes. They train to think success and winning. Part of their success is due to physical training, no doubt about that! But equally important is training the mind to see themselves winning. Do you think they never have moment of doubt? Of course they do but they have learned how to refocus their thoughts in a positive way. And just like athletes manage to break world records through physical and mental training, so can you refocus your thoughts and emotions on who you want to be in every moment of your life.
And the final step to be who you want to be is to follow through on your actions. Once you've ascertained what your truth is, you need to follow through with your actions. For example, if your preference is to go to the cinema, or start writing a book, or spend an evening with a dear friend, you need to take the appropriate action. Otherwise you're creating an image in your subconscious of not being true to yourself. It is similar to promising a friend to do them a favour, e.g. invite them for dinner, and never actually following through on that. After some time the friend won't believe in the invitation any longer. It's the same with your subconscious. If you only follow through on the surface by acknowledging your preference but never living it, never following through on it, then some part of you will feel cheated and you stop believing in yourself. And that is very damaging indeed to achieving the life you've dreamt of. You can't tap into the abundant potential of this Universe and at the same time send yourself the message that you don't believe in yourself. It's as if you're trying to drive a car with the handbrake on. It won't work!
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