Today, I'd like to share some simple, but naughty texting
techniques with you. With today's technology, a person can communicate
romance, excitement and anything else that one can think through a
variety of means. Texting is one such example, but it is often ignored
in favor of other mediums, like emails, and Facebook posts. This is a
mistake, because there are certain emotions that are best expressed
through texting as opposed to other mediums of electronic communication.
In any case, you can create a great text message with a simple one-liners like these:
- I just can't stop thinking of...
- Stop!
- If I could only tell you...
The idea behind these kinds of messages actually comes from marketing. They're meant to shock the senses and elicit curiosity. Although they don't always work in the commercial world, this technique is very effective when used in relationships, particularly if the person you're sending them to likes to get such messages.
If you can create a good introductory message, you will be able to garner the right attention, and she'll respond to your initial message with a curious "What?" From here, you will need to send an appreciation text. You can write any kind of message that you like, but it helps if you can be a little specific on what you wish to say to your special someone.
"I'm lucky to have you" or "I already miss you" are the kind of messages that stimulate feelings of gratitude and endearment. In any case, it's up to you to be creative, and to create text messages that can make your girl smile. These messages may seem a bit cliche, but if you use them at the right moments, and provided you don't overuse them, they can really help improve your relationship.
If however, you and your girl already have a strong relationship then you can try naughtier messages. In writing these messages, it's important to use the present tense and to be as descriptive as possible. Remember that unlike men, women tend to be more imaginative when it comes to romance, and so you will need to offer a lot of descriptions on how you'd like a special date or dinner to go. Describing sights, sounds, smells, and most important of all, feelings can help add excitement and meaning to a particular text message. It also helps if you know how to use the words that women typically like, such as "imagine" or "feel."
A good example to use are romance novels. Some people may consider them trashy, but they can give you some excellent insights on how the female mind works, and what kind of words excite them. Love scenes, for example, use certain words and phrases, and you can use them to create the ideal text messages.
Text messages are like an art form. They require practice and a little perseverance. Even if your girlfriend doesn't like some of your text messages, that's no reason to give up. Keep practicing your text messaging skills, and you'll soon have the right template to make her swoon.
Try it out and let me know how she reacts.
In any case, you can create a great text message with a simple one-liners like these:
- I just can't stop thinking of...
- Stop!
- If I could only tell you...
The idea behind these kinds of messages actually comes from marketing. They're meant to shock the senses and elicit curiosity. Although they don't always work in the commercial world, this technique is very effective when used in relationships, particularly if the person you're sending them to likes to get such messages.
If you can create a good introductory message, you will be able to garner the right attention, and she'll respond to your initial message with a curious "What?" From here, you will need to send an appreciation text. You can write any kind of message that you like, but it helps if you can be a little specific on what you wish to say to your special someone.
"I'm lucky to have you" or "I already miss you" are the kind of messages that stimulate feelings of gratitude and endearment. In any case, it's up to you to be creative, and to create text messages that can make your girl smile. These messages may seem a bit cliche, but if you use them at the right moments, and provided you don't overuse them, they can really help improve your relationship.
If however, you and your girl already have a strong relationship then you can try naughtier messages. In writing these messages, it's important to use the present tense and to be as descriptive as possible. Remember that unlike men, women tend to be more imaginative when it comes to romance, and so you will need to offer a lot of descriptions on how you'd like a special date or dinner to go. Describing sights, sounds, smells, and most important of all, feelings can help add excitement and meaning to a particular text message. It also helps if you know how to use the words that women typically like, such as "imagine" or "feel."
A good example to use are romance novels. Some people may consider them trashy, but they can give you some excellent insights on how the female mind works, and what kind of words excite them. Love scenes, for example, use certain words and phrases, and you can use them to create the ideal text messages.
Text messages are like an art form. They require practice and a little perseverance. Even if your girlfriend doesn't like some of your text messages, that's no reason to give up. Keep practicing your text messaging skills, and you'll soon have the right template to make her swoon.
Try it out and let me know how she reacts.